Marshal, if you don't mind my analysis, you seem to be supportive of the moderating staff being detached from the community, as Hedge said, the "us and them" approach.
Personally, I find that idea quite counterproductive and generally overweight. If the administrative staff is a different society from the one which it is governing, then how can it govern the community efficiently? (See: India under Britain)
While both Hedge and I seem to understand that Arnies' is a private community under private ownership, we are aware that it can be run in whatever way "they" (the owner, at its ro