spetsnazdave87 Posted February 20, 2010 Report Share Posted February 20, 2010 EDIT: And this topic is going haywire from the second i entered. Your girlfriend's rectum or this thread? Link to post Share on other sites
FireKnife Posted February 20, 2010 Report Share Posted February 20, 2010 Your girlfriend's rectum or this thread? Internet *fruitcage* high five dude. But yes it may be one of those. 'FireKnife' Link to post Share on other sites
greg Posted February 20, 2010 Report Share Posted February 20, 2010 Problem is fireknife... any unscrupulous *bramston pickle* who now looks at your friends list has a 50% chance of finding said lady... Why did you have to say that? I just couldn't resist looking & now I feel dirty. Greg. Link to post Share on other sites
greg Posted February 20, 2010 Report Share Posted February 20, 2010 And you call us wankers...damn limeys I think it's because 'Yank', also means to 'pull' or 'tug'. True, but would you want a girlfriend who's job is to have sex with other men / women? I think this comes in exactly the same category as using hookers: No problem, as long as 'society' doesn't get involved & point the finger of judgment. Most to the g/f's I've had are perfectly ok that I've used the services of a professional,,,,,,,,,, as long as I don't tell their friends or family. Bet she would love that. They all love it. Again, as long as society's finger of judgment ain't pointed at them, they are happy. Greg. Link to post Share on other sites
Seraphim989 Posted February 20, 2010 Report Share Posted February 20, 2010 I think it's because 'Yank', also means to 'pull' or 'tug'. Greg. My point was its YOU guys who are wackin' it to the stuff in this thread. Also, Im assuming you meant your girlfriend have been ok with you using them before you met said girlfriend, right? If not, then I' going to have to disagree. Most girls will not be ok with that Link to post Share on other sites
amateurstuntman Posted February 20, 2010 Report Share Posted February 20, 2010 Who cares if your girlfriend is paid to have sex with people? Let's face it. As a squaddie you have to accept that when you are away from home your mrs will be getting it left right and centre. If you are dating a pro at least she will be being honest about it. As for the threesome thing, yes and no. If you are dating a pro then that isn't going to happen with one of her colleagues. It is all about having a clear dividing line between home and work. Put it this way, would you do a threesome with her and one of her customers? If you are dating a pro though there is a strong chance that she will have a more liberal attitude to things like that so it could happen. The only times that happened with me were not with her though. Both at the request of the girl in question and neither was really my thing. While I stated earlier that I would do almost anything I needed to to satisfy my partner the whole threesome thing has never really held much interest for me. I certainly don't seek them out. Being in a secure enough relationship to do that will mean there jealousy and envy issues. Randomly ending up with two girls you don't know is massively unlikely (although being a squaddie helps) and seems oddly unfulfilling. Link to post Share on other sites
FireKnife Posted February 20, 2010 Report Share Posted February 20, 2010 seems oddly unfulfilling. They ain't doing it right? I must admit i couldn't see how a threesome would be unfulfilling, but then again so long as a girl puts effort in all sex is rewarding in some way. But if you didn't seek it out and it was offered to you, you may not have been in the mood at the time. I just couldn't resist looking & now I feel dirty It would have to have been you wouldn't it lol, knew you couldn't resist. 'FireKnife' Link to post Share on other sites
amateurstuntman Posted February 20, 2010 Report Share Posted February 20, 2010 Unfulfilling in the sense that we seemed to be doing it just so we'd be able to say we did it. It was good in the sense that it was "naughty" but there was no real rush. Plus, I prefer a girl to stuff because she wants to, not because she is drunk or under peer pressure. Link to post Share on other sites
FireKnife Posted February 20, 2010 Report Share Posted February 20, 2010 True. But anywho, off out for a night on the town and it is snowing (or has snowed) up here so you may see some contributions to this thread courtesy of me. But meh, it is my night out so maybe not, see how it goes. 'FireKnife' Link to post Share on other sites
FireKnife Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 Boo Ya. Really, couldn't you work out we were all like this? 'FireKnife' Link to post Share on other sites
amateurstuntman Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 Not me surely? Link to post Share on other sites
Punkypink Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 No there wasn't a big problem between us it's just that I had to move away. A lot of my friends couldn't understand how I could "let" her carry on working when we were seeing each other. What? She earns more than me and she is doing a job she had when I met her, what kind of lunacy is that. To be honest I welcomed their confusion. You're one cool customer. My ex had dommed professional before and was considering going back to the line of work for the money, and truth be told I couldn't quite accept it. She never did go back to it of course. Still I can't help but respect you for being able to accept her continuing in her line of work. It takes a lot to not demand sexual exclusivity of your partner. At the time I was with my ex she allowed me to sleep with other people as long as it was not emotional, and back then I never saw it in the proper light that it was intended to. I felt, at the time, that she did not treasure me as much as she should which is why she was willing to let me sleep with others, but now I realise that it was because she loved AND trusted me more than most people in conventional relationships do, to not place such a restriction on me. Like I said, you have my deepest respect. Plus of course, you're an ace with AUGs Link to post Share on other sites
Seraphim989 Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 So you're saying those you ask exclusivity of their partners don't trust them a much as those who don't ask for it? Link to post Share on other sites
mattmanic Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 I like how this thread has changed from "Lol! Those people aren't wearing coats!" to the pros and cons of dating a porn star... Link to post Share on other sites
FireKnife Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 Prostitue, not Pornstar. But still i would actually be ok with it if the same went for me, or i was in the same line of work. If i was allowed to have sex with strangers under the acceptance of my GF who would be doing the same then i could get used to that. But if you are in a relationship that is not with a sexual professional then it is you and them (unless of course they have a mind for threesomes and swinging etc) and that is how it should be. But having never dated a sexual professional i can't say for certain what i would do. So you're saying those you ask exclusivity of their partners don't trust them a much as those who don't ask for it? I think this is viewed in the case of you dating someone who is paid to have sex, the trust you to not need the boundaries in a typical relationship due to the line of work they are in, they admit they do something that is looked upon as cheating and so allow the other person to level the playing field if they so wish. At least that is how i would take it. 'FireKnife' Link to post Share on other sites
amateurstuntman Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 You're right, it's all about boundaries and ground rules. If you enter a relationship with someone there is an unspoken "contract" between you. How would you feel if you started dating a girl who knew you were into airsoft (for example) and then later she tells you that if you don't give airsoft up she will leave you. That is out of order because you entered the relationship knowing that about each other. The pro thing is the same. If you find out that your girlfriend has been turning tricks behind your back that is out of order. If you know when you meet then any jealousy you feel is your problem, not hers. I've re-negotiated the unspoken contract too. When I joined the army I had been dating a girl for six months. I had to go away (obviously) and she was very upset. She told me she wanted to stay in a relationship but that knowing herself she thought that if she tried to remain celibate while I was away she would get frustrated, start to resent me and inevitably she would cheat on me. I didn't want her to feel bad so I said that she could sleep with other guys while I was away as long as she kept me informed if she fell for someone else. That worked really well and in the end although we broke up it wasn't for that reason. Link to post Share on other sites
Seraphim989 Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 Why is everyone having so much trouble keeping it in their pants? Link to post Share on other sites
Punkypink Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 Why is everyone having so much trouble keeping it in their pants? Too big. Link to post Share on other sites
Cyber Soldier Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 Too big. Cue obligitory Darklite reference. Link to post Share on other sites
Seraphim989 Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 It's always amusing to read the off topic forums, Serious debate to teenage immaturity in 3 posts! You should go back and read the last few pages and then come back and tell me it wasn't silly already Link to post Share on other sites
FireKnife Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 Stop that, it's silly! Too big. Mine is. But thankfully not too big so it wont fit at all, just a tight squeeze. P.S. Three posts, it should only take one. 'FireKnife' Link to post Share on other sites
Punkypink Posted February 21, 2010 Report Share Posted February 21, 2010 Stop that, it's silly! Mine is. But thankfully not too big so it wont fit at all, just a tight squeeze. P.S. Three posts, it should only take one. 'FireKnife' You're not Darklite. Fullstop. Link to post Share on other sites
FireKnife Posted February 22, 2010 Report Share Posted February 22, 2010 Doesn't matter. Still true. And with him it would resemble a flesh coloured firemans pole that a woman only has to look at to orgasm. At least mine was realitstic and honest. 'FireKnife' Link to post Share on other sites
Seraphim989 Posted February 22, 2010 Report Share Posted February 22, 2010 penis penis penis penis penis thats the summary of this page so far Link to post Share on other sites
FireKnife Posted February 22, 2010 Report Share Posted February 22, 2010 penis penis penis penis penis thats the summary of this page so far Is that a complaint or a compliment? Either way it can't beat a page filled with anal. Thankfully no pictures though. 'FireKnife' Link to post Share on other sites
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